I got a "new" (used iphone 5S) which is supposed to work according to other posts, for the bluetooth connection to the controller. I get it and the breeze hooked up. I get the "vibration" and message it's hooked up, but when I slide the slider it says "it can't find the controller" not exact words. It appears to be hooked up on the AP settings screen, and the vibration, etc. What am I doing wrong?