Know whatcha mean. Spend 4-6 months working 12hour minim shifts, 7 days a week in a high risk environment, come “home” for one or two months where first half is spent back in corporate. First two weeks of your actual home time is pretty much wasted as your head is in the wrong place, making you unfit to associate with family or normal society. Once you finally get “civilized” again, sorta, you’re buried in all the stuff that needed to be done while you were away. A week before you’re scheduled to go back down range you’re back in corporate country prepping for the next tour, knowing you won’t have a moment’s freedom for months to come. Then you have those home periods where you’ve only been home a couple days and you’re recalled to re-deploy right now because something happened or fell apart that requires you’re skills or presence. Had one of those where I got a call at 23:00 one night telling me there was a plane ticket waiting for me at SFO as soon as I could get there. I hadn’t even unpacked after my arrival at home yet.
It’s not an easy way of life but once you dedicate yourself to it you adapt and become just as bonkers as everyone else if you want to mentally survive it. For those that did it I have yet to meet even one that didn’t need at least a couple years after they stopped to get their head out of the desert. Some never do.