I see in one of your pictures that the "solder pad" is pulled out of the board. Is this the "female connector" you mean? If so, we will need a close up picture of the damaged board to see which pad got yanked. I'm not sure if the mount and wires in the picture are from your original board. That makes it more important to show us your original board to avoid giving bad advice. If it is NOT the original mount and wires, a different pad (or pads) may be involved.
Are you aware that you can bypass all of these wires simply by plugging in the "Pigtail" to the camera, and using the plug behind the camera mount to run the camera? It is exactly the same circuits. You just have to ensure NONE of the damaged components can possibly be in contact with each other. That would include the bare wires in your photo, and any tracing that may have been pulled loose from the board.